I waded through countless forum discussions, poorly written books, podcast interviews, old texts on tantric spirituality, and whatever else I could get my hands on. How to bring the techniques from lasting longer in bed and having non-ejaculatory orgasms on your own into the bedroom, to drastically improve the fun, pleasure, and potential of any sex activity with a partner. The most important part of this is showing her how to keep you in a PNEO state, what to do when you get too close, and the physical signs of you being in a PNEO.
The internet is full of advice on how to spice up your sex life. But how do you know what really works? Here, seven real dudes share their best-orgasm-ever advice, so you and your partner have a jumping-off point instead of just opening up to a random page in the Kama Sutra and hoping for the best.
Don't pressure him Most women, in many cases, will feel that they are not hot or sexy enough when a man fails to reach orgasm. If he has problems getting to the finishing line, do not pressure him, that is the last thing he needs. Instead be supportive; just lie back and enjoy your love making without thinking about whether he'll orgasm or not.
Orgasms feel pretty good. But as the romantic comedies of Nancy Meyers and Rob Marshall have taught us, why settle for something good when you can have something great? And, chances are you never thought your orgasms could feel even better.
While you may scream the house down, his may not seem as intense. Now, we know that just like every woman, every man is different especially in the sexual needs department! Does he start twitching?
Men's orgasms may never be as intense as the screaming, multiple orgasms that many women are capable of. But that doesn't mean that they can't be better than average or even earth—shattering, mind—blowing, toe—curling, etc. Just like with women, there are psychological, emotional and physical things that contribute to the quality of a man's orgasm.
No one actually needs to rally for the wonders of an orgasm when there's enough research—as psychologist and sex therapist Mary Jo Rapini explains—that the tremor-inducing release of serotonin and endorphins can boost the immune system and decrease stress and anxiety. But when there's still a wide "pleasure gap" to bridge today—the term describing the slim number of women who experience orgasms during sex in relation to men—the main question is how. Below, we consulted advice from across the scientific spectrum, from medical studies to sexperts to sex therapists, on ways to enhance the female orgasm and feel connected to your partner without giving up your primal right to come.
An 8 minute long orgasm? Finally, I had somewhere to start my search. But less than 24 hours later… I was pissed off and dissatisfied.
No doubt your dude is just happy that you're naked and in his bed. But if you want to give him an orgasm he'll never forgetbust out one or more of these sexy little tricks and watch his brain melt right out his ears. By Carolyn Kylstra Make It Pop When you're giving him oral, slowly slide your mouth all the way down to the base of his penis use your hand as a mouth extension if you need some assistance. Then, make a vacuum suction with your mouth as you slowwwwly drag yourself back up.